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How To Tell If A Girl Really Likes You- 3 Simple Ways To Know.
Relationships
are one of the most frustrating aspects of human existence. It seems like
some kind of cosmic joke that men and women are so different in every way,
yet we’re supposed to pair up successfully. It can seem impossible to tell
what the opposite sex is thinking and how we can respond. Unfortunately,
many men depend on an ill-informed set of criteria to decode what they think
women want. Eyelash batting is a sure sigh if you’re into the middle-school
set. What you should be keeping your eyes peeled for is a combination of
positives and negatives. Here’s some insight to how real women show there
interest, or lack of.
1- Body Language –
This is a big one. There’s a lot of information to be gathered here. It will
tell you if she’s interested, and it can tell you if she’s not. . Pay
attention to how she’s sitting. Are her legs crossed toward you or away from
you? If they’re toward you, then chat with her; if they’re away, then you
should go away too. If she’s closed off, meaning she’s physically withdraw
from you: turns away, folds her arms, avoids eye contact, she’s telling you
to keep moving. If you see the opposite behaviors, have a seat.
2- The eyes have it –
If her body language says yes, then you’re probably close enough to check
out her eyes. Our pupils dilate when we look at something we desire. There’s
no way to fake it either way. It’s basic biology.
3- Get a clue –
If you’re not catching the nonverbals she’s throwing out, listen to the
words that are coming out of her mouth. There are certain topics a woman
will never broach with a man she’d like to get to know better, and some
things she’s only say if she’s into you:
* Exes - If she talks about other guys, even ex boyfriends,
she’s saying there’s no room for you.
* Eternity – If she goes over the top about how she’s itching to tie
the knot, she’s either got issues you don’t want to get involved with or she
wants rid of you.
It’s a fail proof way to run a new guy off. The same goes for any degree of
biological clock ticking.
*Interrogation – If she’s interested, she’ll ask. It’s that simple.
No woman is going to ask get-to-know-you-type questions to a man she doesn’t
want to know about. If she’s asking about your job, your family, your extra
curricular activities, treat it like a job interview. You are being
evaluated for compatibility and boyfriend potential.
So, forget everything you think you know about hair twirling and giggling.
Grown women don’t behave that way. Dating can be tricky, especially at the
start, but there’s no need to complicate things by trying to play it like a
guessing game. Responding to simple social cues will save a lot of confusion
for all involved. Uncomplicated relationship doesn’t have to be an oxymoron. |
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